When it comes to prayer, Jesus offers us something much simpler than we might expect. He’s not concerned about fancy words or sounding impressive—He cares about the connection. Prayer is about relationship. It’s like sitting with someone you love, enjoying their company without rushing through the conversation. It’s about being present.
In a similar way, we don’t rush through conversations with people who matter to us. We slow down, linger, and listen. We take time because we enjoy the company. That’s what prayer is too—taking time to be with God, letting the relationship grow naturally.
Well-known author Henri Nouwen beautifully addresses this in one of his prayers. He reflects on how quickly the things that once seemed important can fade away and how we’re often trapped by a sense of urgency. But God's love is different—eternal, inviting us to let go of our anxieties and find peace. Nouwen reminds us that prayer isn’t about the chaos of the moment but about resting in God’s eternal presence. You can read the full prayer HERE.
At times, we all feel like we’re just going through the motions in prayer, where our words don’t really connect. It’s comforting to know that even the disciples, who spent every day with Jesus, asked Him how to pray. Prayer isn’t something we have to perfect; it’s something we learn and grow into. Jesus is always ready to teach us.
One way to deepen your prayer life is to turn to wonder. What questions come to mind when you think about prayer? Take time to reflect on them, maybe even write them down. As we explore prayer more over the next few weeks, some of those questions might begin to feel clearer. Even Jesus' disciples, after witnessing miracles and healings, asked Him, "Lord, teach us to pray." They had seen God's power firsthand, but there was something about Jesus' prayers—a depth and connection with the Father—that drew them in. It’s the same connection Jesus invites us into today.
Jesus shows us that prayer is meant to be real and personal. It’s not about impressing anyone or following a formula. He wants us to experience an authentic relationship with God. And sometimes, we might feel like we’re not “doing it right,” but that’s not the point. Jesus teaches us that prayer isn’t about perfection—it’s about presence.
Think about how often Jesus slipped away to quiet places to pray. His ministry was growing, and crowds were following Him everywhere, but He always made time to be alone with His Father. He shows us that prayer is about stepping away from the noise and finding quiet moments to connect with God, especially when life feels full.
This invitation to step into the quiet isn’t just about finding physical space—it’s about creating space in our hearts. Jesus invites us to find that inner quiet, where we can meet with God, free from distractions or the need to perform. In that quiet space, God meets us just as we are.
There’s a beautiful story from Jill Briscoe, a Bible teacher, who describes prayer as going to “the door in the deep places of your soul” and sitting there with Jesus. It’s a reminder that prayer isn’t just about words; it’s about being. It’s about taking time to listen, reflect, and enjoy God’s presence.
This week, try setting aside a few minutes to be alone with God. You don’t need perfect words or elaborate prayers—just show up and be with Him. The more we practice being present with God in these quiet moments, the more we’ll grow in our relationship with Him.
Prayer is about spending time with Jesus, just like He spent time with His Father. It’s a space where we’re fully known and deeply loved. In the quiet places of our hearts, we find God’s presence. Away from the busyness of life, He is always waiting, ready to meet us.
As you begin or continue your journey of prayer, remember it’s all about connection. It’s about finding rest in the presence of a Father who loves you. There’s no need to rush or to worry about saying the right things. Just come as you are. God is waiting for you there, in the quiet, in the stillness, ready to welcome you in.